God's love for us is independent of our performance, our actions, and even our own responses. It is possible therefore in human relationships to model this. Every problem in human relationships and in one's relationship with God can be traced back to some departure from modeling the love of God. Having love for a person, or God involves faith in that person and in God. Having faith in the Love of God holds the possibility of a positive relationship with God, others and the very life we live. God's love forgives, through the finished work that was accomplished in the crucifixion of Jesus Christ, God's son. A person can find forgiveness and give forgiveness through a relationship with God, through Christ Jesus independent of others performance, actions or responses.
Luk 1:37 For with God nothing shall be impossible. (KJV)
Luke 1:37 For no word from God will ever fail." (NIV)
Lord, with you, and through you, nothing is or shall be impossible. We both receive and give forgiveness independent of others performance, actions or responses.
So Be it!