Reconciling a bank statement is to be the same that you think is in your account as actually is in your account.
Reconciling one's life is to be the same that you think you are and who you really are. Ultimate reconciliation is to be reconciled to God.
Hypocrisy is to be out of harmony in our inner, recreated spiritual being, our outer, visible self, and our will, mind and emotions. All one lacks is supplied through a relationship with God, through Christ Jesus.
It isn't a what, but a whom.
Colossians 1: 22But now he has reconciled you by Christ's physical body through death to present you holy in his sight, without blemish and free from accusation—
By faith, receiving the free gift offered to all of humanity of being reconciled to God is the greatest gift of all. And… this gift is available at any time to anyone.
Try this affirmation. It has really been helping me all week.
"I am reconciled to God, through the physical death, and shed blood of Jesus Christ". I accept you, Lord Jesus and thank you for reconciling me to God.
Reconciliation turns weakness into strength, sickness into health, death into life, mistakes into miracles, poverty into prosperity, wars into cooperation, stress into peace, enemies into friends, separation into union, and hypocrisy into authenticity.